How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 13:57

How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Does not procrastinate.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

That's it for today.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Ask yourself:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.